LOTO NEGRO

A phenomenological approach to understanding how social norms shape our perception of sexuality, romance, and human relationships. Abstract   This article proposes the Model of the Mediated Perception of One’s Own Sexuality (MMPOOS) as a phenomenologically inspired analytical framework for examining the influence of cultural and normative structures on the subjective experience of sexuality, intimacy, and interpersonal bonds. Drawing upon the phenomenological tradition and the concept of epoché , it argues that sexual experience may not present itself in an immediate or neutral manner, but rather be mediated by internalized interpretive systems that condition how individuals understand what they feel. Within this context, the concept of Allosexual Performativity is introduced, understood as the set of sociocultural mechanisms that tend to presume the universality and centrality of sexual attraction, thereby generating normative pressures that may influence the self-interpretation o...

When Connection Stops Being a Label and Becomes an Architecture       For decades, the Western emotional imaginary has reduced human relationships to an apparently clear dichotomy: friendship or romance. Under this logic, emotional life is organized around a relatively stable narrative: desire leads to attraction, attraction leads to falling in love, and falling in love leads to partnership. Yet at the margins — and increasingly at the center as well — forms of connection are emerging that challenge this simplification. The asexual (ace) and aromantic (aro) spectrums not only question the cultural centrality of sexual and romantic desire, but also introduce a far more complex and philosophically intriguing possibility: that love may not be a single, unified category, but rather a shifting assemblage of intimacies, affinities, and forms of connection.   From this perspective, many human relationships no longer fit comfortably within traditional frameworks. There are e...