Post-Sexuality: Between ACE Experience, Contemporary Spirituality, Kink Dissidences of Desire, and Technological Transcendence
The Transcendence of Eros in the Post-Organic Era
1. Introduction
1.1.
Eros in the Era of
the Surpassed Body
1.2.
Synchrony of
Ghosts
1.3.
From Sex to
Digital Eros: Post-Sexuality as Transfiguration of Desire
2.
Human
Post-Sexuality: ACE, Spirituality, and Kink as Non-Normative Paths to Intimacy
2.1.
Operational
Definition of Post-Sexuality
- Decentralization
of the body: the body remains present, but ceases to be the
exclusive axis of intimacy.
- Transfiguration
of desire: erotic impulse transforms into a longing for
resonance, fusion, or conscious communion.
- Plurality
of media: intimacy may manifest through ACE bonds,
spiritual practices, kink/BDSM rituals, or technological interfaces.
- Ethical
interdependence: the bond rests on reciprocity, transparency, and
care, not possession or consumption.
- It is
not repression or suppression of desire:
desire is transformed and redistributed.
- It is
not absence of the body: the body remains a
channel of experience, though not the center.
- It is
not coldness or dehumanization: it
can be deeply affective and erotic.
- It is
not a moral dogma: it is an interpretive and practical framework,
not a universal obligation.
|
Myth |
Reality |
|
Post-sexuality means not having sex |
It may include sex, but does not consider it central |
|
Only for ACE people |
ACE is one path, not the norm |
|
Desire disappears |
Desire is redistributed and refined |
|
It is cold or mechanical |
It can be deeply emotional and erotic |
|
It does not exist in real life |
It manifests in concrete human practices |
2.2.
ACE:
Decentralizing Sex and Sexuality as a Non-Obligatory Condition
2.3.
Spirituality,
Pain, and Dissolution of the Self: Meditative Practices and Sublimation of
Desire
2.4.
Kink and BDSM:
Pain, Limits, and Ritualized Communion
Pain ceases to be punishment and becomes the language of the bond. Power ceases to be oppression and becomes a rhythmic dance of surrender and care. In this sense, BDSM is not the dark reverse of eroticism, but its contemporary ritual of transfiguration: a space where the body becomes sacred again—not for the pleasure it provides, but for what it reveals of the other. Ritualized BDSM demonstrates that the body can be a channel of fusion without instrumentalization.
2.5.
Convergences:
Technology, Spirit, and Ritualized Flesh
|
Axis |
Technology |
ACE |
Spirituality |
Kink/BDSM |
|
Medium |
Mental fusion |
Affective bond |
Attention &
discipline |
Ritualized body |
|
Desire |
Conscious resonance |
Ethical connection |
Sublimation |
Vulnerability |
|
Body |
Secondary |
Decentralized |
Channel |
Central, ritual |
|
Interdependence |
Digital |
Ethical |
Transcendent |
Consensual |
3.
Phenomenology of
Non-Dual Eros: Shikantaza, Post-Sexuality, and Presence
- No doing
- No directing
- No appropriating
3.1.
Minimal
Phenomenological Framework: Observing Without Intervening
- Shikantaza (只管打坐): just sitting
- Pi-Kuan (壁觀): objectless contemplation
- Musai
(無作為): activity without a doer
3.2.
Conditions of
Emergence (Not Causes)
- Stable, sustained posture (Seiza)
- Non-focalized attention
- Suspension of identity narrative
- Abandonment of all experiential expectation
3.3.
Phenomenological
Description of the Process
3.4.
Interpretation:
Embodied Post-Sexual Eros
3.5.
Philosophical
Dialogue: Convergences Without Syncretism
3.6.
Lived
Post-Sexuality: Orientation, Body, and Ethics
4. My Personal Experience: Integrated ACE Sexuality, Conscious Autoeroticism, and Shikantaza
|
Term / Concept |
Definition /
Nuance |
Example of Behavior |
Source /
Reference |
|
Asexuality with
libido |
Person who does not feel sexual attraction toward
others but experiences sexual desire or excitation. |
Regular masturbation, sexual fantasies, consumption
of pornography, without interest in sex with others. |
Decker, 2014; AVEN; Reddit r/asexuality |
|
Autosexuality |
Sexual excitation primarily directed toward oneself;
may or may not identify as ace. |
Enjoyment of one’s own body image or autoeroticism,
frequent masturbation, fantasies centered on oneself. |
Prause et al.,
2008; sexological literature |
|
Solo-sex (informal term in ACE communities) |
Sexuality practiced solely with oneself, without
involving other people. |
Use of sex toys, masturbation as the primary form of
sexual expression. |
AVEN forums, Reddit
communities |
|
Libido ace |
Form of libido compatible with asexuality,
indicating excitation without desire for others. |
Masturbation, sensory exploration, excitation
without sexual interaction with third parties. |
Decker, 2014; AVEN |
|
Concept |
My Case |
|
Asexuals with
libido |
Yes, but libido not directed toward others. |
|
Autosexuality |
Partially: only the self-directed practice, without
attraction toward myself. |
|
Solo-sex /
autoeroticism |
Yes, fully applicable: enjoyment and pleasure
centered on myself, without need for sexual acts with others. |
|
Flexible Asexual |
Yes, fully applicable: conditional possibility of
sex with others, but current indifference. |
5.
Exegesis of the
Post-Sexual Symbol
- Ace: singularity, potency not obliged to express itself.
- ACE: asexual spectrum, decentralization of sex as mandate.
- Spades: depth, shadow, risk, traversal.
- Informational
(matrix): the post-organic context.
- Contemplative
(ensō): the attitude of presence.
- Post-identitarian
(ACE): decentralization of desire.
- Corporeal-ritual
(BDSM): conscious practice of limits.
6.
Post-Sexual
Manifesto and Motto
6.1.
Post-Sexual
Manifesto
- Desire is fluid, not possessive: it is shared, respected, and transformed.
- Intimacy transcends flesh: it is built in mind, heart, spirit, and conscious ritual.
- Pleasure is not the center: resonance and ethical fusion are the supreme ends.
- Body, mind, and consciousness are tools: each can mediate union, not domination.
- Radical consent and transparency: interdependence flourishes only where absolute respect and mutual clarity exist.
- Diversity of paths: technology, ACE experience, spirituality, and kink are legitimate routes toward the same horizon of communion.
- Post-sexual Eros as ethic and art: loving and desiring become practices of care, creation, and transcendence.
- Open future: post-sexuality is a living experiment, an invitation to rewrite intimacy in every generation.
6.2.
Post-Sexual Motto
7.
Conclusion
8.
Bibliographic
References
Asexuality Visibility and Education Network (AVEN). (s. f.). Overview of asexuality. Recuperado de https://www.asexuality.org
Han, B.-C. (2014). La agonía del Eros. Barcelona: Herder.
Sangue Shi
Editor-in-Chief of Loto Negro Magazine
www.lotonegrorevista.blogspot.com
Editor-in-Chief of Sangue Shi Ediciones
www.sangueshiediciones.blogspot.com
Administrator of ACE Post-Sexuality
www.acepostsexuality.blogspot.comot.com


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